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Tonia Thelma Grant (1927-2005)

12/10/2011

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Picture"In Memory of the Voices We Have Lost"
_ I have just discovered that Tonia Thelma Grant died in 2005, and I don’t remember reading any memorials about her passing, so I wanted to write something.

Tonia was born in Brooklyn on March 28, 1927, and she moved to Gilboa, New York, in 1971. Here she founded Damas Gracias Writers’ Workspace, where lesbian writers could offer workshops and retreats for women.

PictureOffice of the Amsterdam News
_The year before Tonia’s death, I had the privilege of teaching a lesbian theatre workshop at Damas Gracias, and one of my favorite memories is sitting around in the evening and listening to Tonia’s stories of being an early “out” lesbian in Brooklyn. I believe she said she had worked as a reporter for the Amsterdam News, one of the historic African American newspapers.

She had a passion for lesbian culture that was undiminished, and Damas Gracias, located on a beautiful creek, reflected the dream of a “room of one’s own.”

The one obituary I have, sent to me by Basil Kreimendahl, who attended my workshop, notes that “She is survived by two sisters, Hazel Chambers of Brooklyn and Ruby Grant of Gilboa; a brother, Edgerton Grant of Brooklyn; a son, Tonio M. Grant of Gilboa; and two grandchildren, Mychal and Amaya Grant of West Virginia.” And, it notes,  there was a service for her in Grand Gorge. 

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_Basil, who wanted Tonia to perform in one of her plays, added this:
"I also remember Tonia telling me how much she enjoyed every year going to the Carribean and that she had family there. She also told me that she had a brownstone in Brooklyn. At one point, she had a private club for women in it. This was when that was the safest way to meet. She was also an actress."

Because I am unable to locate more information about Tonia, I  want to turn to the land she chose for her dreams : the small town of Gilboa located in the Catskill Mountains.There are two facts about this small town that seem to me to stand as metaphors for the greater and seemingly lost story of Tonia’s life.

First, in 1926, the year before Tonia’s birth, the original town was razed and flooded by the damming of the Schoharie Creek. Many of the townspeople fought “eminent domain,” right up to the flooding and for two decades beyond. The project was built by African American and Italian immigrant labor.

PictureThe prehistoric trees of Gilboa
_Gilboa is also noted for the discovery in 2007, two years after Tonia’s death, of fossils of fern-like trees, named “Wattieza” which have been pronounced the oldest known trees on earth. How old? 385 million years.

Wow… an underwater town and the world's oldest trees.  Tonia’s history…  a history of African American womanism, of secret communities of lesbians of color… bars and private clubs and meetings in homes.  A history of displacement, of submerged identities, of the “eminent domain” of a white, heterosexist, misogynist culture. 

But something older, far older remains. The dozens of lesbian writers and writing students who passed through Damas Gracias will leave our writings, and our writings will influence other writings, and these legacies will continue to testify about a culture and a passion as old as human life… to the powerful love between women. These are our “fossils”… the artifacts that will bear witness to our lives.

Tonia Grant was here.  And she lived her dream against nearly impossible odds, and she shared it with the community she loved. “Damas Gracias” says it all…  “Thank you, ladies.”

4 Comments
SheilaG
12/10/2011 07:26:40 am

Thank you again for this incredible post about Tonia!! Every time I come to this blog I am so inspired by our powerful lesbian herstory! And every time I learn something new and powerful. I print these posts out and read them OUT LOUD to lesbian friends. Our powerful lesbian nation creates incredible social possibilities, and I must say, we need more of the Brownstones with the private lesbian clubs, and more writer's colonies, and more grassroots lesbian inspiration.
Not less, more... And we still don't know all our herstory, or where our fossils are buried. We are the 365 million year old trees, we are the fossils that emerge, we are the dinosaurs come back to life, we are women's nation living underwater, swimming to the surface like mermaids and seahorses. We are the mythic power creatures.... I am overcome with inspiration when I read these posts.

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Maureen Brady link
1/26/2012 04:27:51 am

You should contact Lisa Moore in Wash DC. She's working with someone making a film about african american older lesbians and she knows about Tonia, and I believe Tonia will be in the film.

I only found out a couple of years ago myself. I remember that weekend fondly, and time spent earlier with Tonia and Ruby.

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Celia Lang
2/1/2012 10:44:42 am

In clearing out some old "paper" I came across a Damas Gracias flyer and googled my way to your blog.
I met Tonia and her sister Ruby at an OUTWrite poetry workshop in Boston and became fast friends.
Who could resist her loving Bajan energy. I visited her in Gilboa once, but her spirit continues to inspire me. xxx

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Carolyn Gage
2/1/2012 10:00:01 pm

Dear Celia Lang,

Any specific memories of Tonia would be very much appreciated! I am wanting to put together an obituary for Lesbian Connections. Thanks!

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